Common Male Fears

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Common Myths About Male Sexuality

There are several common myths that affect male sexuality, most noticeably people say that size matters, but does it really?

Does size matter?

There have actually been quite a few intensive studies been carried out to look into whether the size of a man’s penis actually affects sex or not. These studies have suggested that although men with larger penises are often more successful at getting sex, they don’t think that this actually affects sex in any way.

This could be for a number of different reasons, perhaps women prefer men with bigger penises. Or it could also be a confidence thing, men with bigger penises are often much more confident. This is because they know that they are good in bed and so are much more confident with the ladies.

The size of the penis doesn’t actually affect the pleasure from sex, as always it depends on what you do with it!

Myth: Sex requires an erection

Fact: This myth seems to of become even more of an issue because of there being so many different impotence aids and drugs available. Most men will be unable to get it up at one time or another, however this doesn’t need to cause a serious problem.

There are a great deal of things that you can do to get pleasure for both you and your partner without having to have an erection. You can use your mouth and hands for example. Your skin is very sensitive and can be considered as a sexual organ.

If you think that not being able to get an erection is the reason that you can’t have sex then you will start piling on the pressure. This will make it much less likely that you will be able to have an erection when you need one!

There are many different causes of erectile problems, many of these are psychological rather than being associated with medical conditions. Erectile problems can be caused by fatigue or tiredness, anger, alcohol abuse, and the use of certain drugs.

Myth: Sex is over when the man comes

Fact: This doesn’t actually have to be what happens. When a man comes the couple could slow down, and then start from the beginning. If they talk and tell each other what they want then they should be able to satisfy one another.

Sex can continue after the man has had an orgasm, in fact a man can enjoy sex without having to ejaculate. There might be a small but of discomfort if the man does not ejaculate, however this will get better very quickly.

Myth: Men in relationships do not masturbate

Fact: Believe it or not this really isn’t true. When a man is in a relationship he will tend to masturbate much less frequently, however both people are likely to masturbate when their partner is not available. Some couples like to spend time masturbating together, it’s completely up to you.

Cheryl is a sexuality writer, interested in male sexuality, relationships of couples, advice, ideas, and loves to answer questions.

Become a Milf Seeker

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Sex Fantasies - The Difference Between Men and Women

There are saying that the brains of men are just occupied by the idea of sex and nothing else. There are also researches showing that men will think about sex twice a minute. As a man, we all fantasize about sex. We are always thinking of some hot babe who is of very good body shape. She is also very beautiful and has a very nice breast. And most importantly, she would like to get it on during the lunch break.

It seems that we are unable to look at a woman without thinking about sex. To this end it will be very logical to assume that women will have their own fantasies in sex too! As a matter of fact it is true. However, some men will just think that a woman who is sexual as a slut. As a man, we have to understand that this is not right and we have to admit and understand that women are just like their counter part. They will also have fantasies in sex.

First of all, we have to admit that women and men are different. Of course they are different in terms of physical built. However, there are just more than that. Most men will be aroused by visual stimulations. We will be turned on if we see a woman with nice breast and legs. We can really say that they are visual creatures.

On the contrary, few women will be aroused by merely visual stimulations. You will usually need to do something before they can be turned on. And it is well known that a woman will be easier to be turned on if they have a feeling of connection to her partner. In fact, women will usually get aroused mentally. This will just explain why foreplay is so important for women since it will make the women more relaxed and be prepared before the actual intercourse.

The above will just explain why men love going to strip clubs while more women will prefer reading romance novels. This is just because men are constantly searching for visual stimulation while women are searching for mental arousal. And this is why we need to talk to our women before having sex. However, most of us only know this but we do not really do it when we are having sex with our women.

Now you will probably know that there are great difference between men and women in terms of sex. And you should try to learn more about female body, as well as the thoughts of women if you would like to give her the greatest sexual experiences.



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Do You Know All These Secrets About Female Orgasm?

We have to admit that most men have experienced orgasm before. They can have the experience with masturbation when they are very young. However, you may not be aware that some women have not experienced orgasm before. It is true that they may not be able to experience that even during intercourses. Apart from this, many women do not masturbate for some reasons.

In fact, many females just do not know what the word "wet" can mean them and they may have never had the experiences of orgasm, although there are a lot of websites or books on the topic of female orgasm. As a man, you will have to know the body of your partner well and learn the techniques to make her really enjoy the pleasure of sex life. In fact, it is always good for a couple to explore together in order to enhance the sex lives.

Most men will find that they can get excited when they see the nudity of a woman. I bet that you may also have such experience. However, this is not the case for most women. Most women will not be sexually aroused by seeing the nudities of men, although they will love to see men with good body shapes and muscles.

The above may explain why men love to go to clubs with strippers. Of course you will also know why women are not as eager as men to go to strip clubs from the above. In most cases, visual stimulations can make a man feel excited. On the contrary, women will need mental stimulations in order to feel excited. This is especially true for women who have not experienced orgasm before. In fact, most women state that they will be turned on if they have a feeling of connection with their men.

At this point you will probably understand that it is not easy to turn a woman on. It is true even for a woman who have experienced orgasm before. On average, it will take at least twenty minutes before a woman can reach orgasm. And there cannot be any interruption in her mood during this period of time. Otherwise she will not be turned on. Of course some women may achieve orgasm in a shorter period of time, especially for women who masturbate. There are females who can achieve that in five minutes. However, these are usually exceptional cases and we should not take them as the norm.

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