Sex Fantasies - The Difference Between Men and Women

There are saying that the brains of men are just occupied by the idea of sex and nothing else. There are also researches showing that men will think about sex twice a minute. As a man, we all fantasize about sex. We are always thinking of some hot babe who is of very good body shape. She is also very beautiful and has a very nice breast. And most importantly, she would like to get it on during the lunch break.

It seems that we are unable to look at a woman without thinking about sex. To this end it will be very logical to assume that women will have their own fantasies in sex too! As a matter of fact it is true. However, some men will just think that a woman who is sexual as a slut. As a man, we have to understand that this is not right and we have to admit and understand that women are just like their counter part. They will also have fantasies in sex.

First of all, we have to admit that women and men are different. Of course they are different in terms of physical built. However, there are just more than that. Most men will be aroused by visual stimulations. We will be turned on if we see a woman with nice breast and legs. We can really say that they are visual creatures.

On the contrary, few women will be aroused by merely visual stimulations. You will usually need to do something before they can be turned on. And it is well known that a woman will be easier to be turned on if they have a feeling of connection to her partner. In fact, women will usually get aroused mentally. This will just explain why foreplay is so important for women since it will make the women more relaxed and be prepared before the actual intercourse.

The above will just explain why men love going to strip clubs while more women will prefer reading romance novels. This is just because men are constantly searching for visual stimulation while women are searching for mental arousal. And this is why we need to talk to our women before having sex. However, most of us only know this but we do not really do it when we are having sex with our women.

Now you will probably know that there are great difference between men and women in terms of sex. And you should try to learn more about female body, as well as the thoughts of women if you would like to give her the greatest sexual experiences.



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Do You Know All These Secrets About Female Orgasm?

We have to admit that most men have experienced orgasm before. They can have the experience with masturbation when they are very young. However, you may not be aware that some women have not experienced orgasm before. It is true that they may not be able to experience that even during intercourses. Apart from this, many women do not masturbate for some reasons.

In fact, many females just do not know what the word "wet" can mean them and they may have never had the experiences of orgasm, although there are a lot of websites or books on the topic of female orgasm. As a man, you will have to know the body of your partner well and learn the techniques to make her really enjoy the pleasure of sex life. In fact, it is always good for a couple to explore together in order to enhance the sex lives.

Most men will find that they can get excited when they see the nudity of a woman. I bet that you may also have such experience. However, this is not the case for most women. Most women will not be sexually aroused by seeing the nudities of men, although they will love to see men with good body shapes and muscles.

The above may explain why men love to go to clubs with strippers. Of course you will also know why women are not as eager as men to go to strip clubs from the above. In most cases, visual stimulations can make a man feel excited. On the contrary, women will need mental stimulations in order to feel excited. This is especially true for women who have not experienced orgasm before. In fact, most women state that they will be turned on if they have a feeling of connection with their men.

At this point you will probably understand that it is not easy to turn a woman on. It is true even for a woman who have experienced orgasm before. On average, it will take at least twenty minutes before a woman can reach orgasm. And there cannot be any interruption in her mood during this period of time. Otherwise she will not be turned on. Of course some women may achieve orgasm in a shorter period of time, especially for women who masturbate. There are females who can achieve that in five minutes. However, these are usually exceptional cases and we should not take them as the norm.

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Why It Pays to Hire Help at Home

After Julie's third child was born, she started feeling overwhelmed. She had the house of her dreams, but it was also huge, and she found the cleaning routine to be exhausting. In addition, she desperately wanted to take an extended family vacation, but she had no one to housesit. The daily grind took its toll, and Julie found herself battling depression.With her mother about 120 miles away, Julie decided she had no choice but to outsource some of her work on the homefront. And it's made all the difference in the world. Julie is finally enjoying life again, her husband is happier, her children appear to be calmer—and grandma is no longer worried about the family. Lawrence is a single father who has sole custody of his seven-year-old daughter. As a teacher, he finds that his work day often lasts longer than the 9-to-3 school day.

That leaves him with little time to make summer plans—including vacation by the shore and day camp for his daughter. As a result, he's decided to outsource his vacation planning and camp researching chores and he believes he is a less-stressed father as a result.Pete is an entrepreneur who left the television news business in order to devote himself full-time to a home-based medical supply business.

While he's confident that he's made the right decision for himself and his family, he needs to find a way to gain a competitive edge. He'd also like to generate more sales from the clients he currently has on his roster. Consequently, he's seriously considering outsourcing so that all business-related duties don't fall on his shoulders.There was a time when the only ones who could really afford to outsource their errands and other personal duties were the Donald Trumps and the Paris Hiltons of the world—but no more. In fact, a number of families are finding that they're better off—financially, emotionally, even career-wise—if they hire someone to take on some of the chores that are depleting their energy, time, and resources.

Add to that the fact that many business executives today—even owners of small businesses—have discovered their company profits can rise if they hire outside concierge services to assist themselves or their employees attain a better balance between their professional lives and their personal lives.A study by the Whirlpool Foundation conducted in 1999 found that the average woman with children spends 35 hours a week doing housework. That means that household chores have become almost a full-time job—even for those who already have full-time employment outside the home. Both women and men—whether they're married, single, married with children, or single with children—are experiencing a major time crunch.

Sociology experts, in fact, say Americans tend to put in more hours at work than other workers around the globe, meaning that there's less time available in American households to devote to routine maintenance, relocation chores, and other tasks.Of course, it's one thing to hear about your neighbor or competitor outsourcing personal and business chores. It's quite another to consider following suit. Still, rest assured that there are numerous reasons to employ someone to handle some of those duties:o You could end up actually saving money.

If you work in a professional field, such as medicine or law, your time is so valuable that it is undoubtedly worth your while to hire a one-stop-shop moving service, rather than to handle those details yourself. o Your stress level may plummet. Once you de-stress your life, you might find that you have lower doctor's bills, less time off from work due to illness, and fewer anxiety-fueled binge eating sessions.o You'll have more time for recreation.

Playing sports, gardening, hiking, or just spending time going to the movies with your children can greatly enhance your quality of life, making you a happier, healthier spouse, parent, friend, and worker.o You may find you'll encounter fewer hassles in your family life. Let's face it—the stress and strain of your "to do" list can really take its toll on family life. You may find that communication with your spouse and your children suffers because of time pressures. By outsourcing, you'll be making your family life simpler—and more satisfying. And, by giving some of your work to someone else, you may re-discover some of the finer things in life—like sleep!


Tracey Crockett is the Chief Lifestyle Manager of Chores, Errands 'N More, a full-service concierge and lifestyle management company located in Upstate South Carolina. The company was founded with the objective of enhancing the quality of life for its customers by offering an extensive list of services and service packages - and thus providing its clientele with the opportunity to enjoy life without its day-to-day complications. More information can be found at http://www.choreserrandsnmore.com,/ or by calling 888-509-5533.