Monday, December 31, 2007

Sex Fantasies - The Difference Between Men and Women

There are saying that the brains of men are just occupied by the idea of sex and nothing else. There are also researches showing that men will think about sex twice a minute. As a man, we all fantasize about sex. We are always thinking of some hot babe who is of very good body shape. She is also very beautiful and has a very nice breast. And most importantly, she would like to get it on during the lunch break.

It seems that we are unable to look at a woman without thinking about sex. To this end it will be very logical to assume that women will have their own fantasies in sex too! As a matter of fact it is true. However, some men will just think that a woman who is sexual as a slut. As a man, we have to understand that this is not right and we have to admit and understand that women are just like their counter part. They will also have fantasies in sex.

First of all, we have to admit that women and men are different. Of course they are different in terms of physical built. However, there are just more than that. Most men will be aroused by visual stimulations. We will be turned on if we see a woman with nice breast and legs. We can really say that they are visual creatures.

On the contrary, few women will be aroused by merely visual stimulations. You will usually need to do something before they can be turned on. And it is well known that a woman will be easier to be turned on if they have a feeling of connection to her partner. In fact, women will usually get aroused mentally. This will just explain why foreplay is so important for women since it will make the women more relaxed and be prepared before the actual intercourse.

The above will just explain why men love going to strip clubs while more women will prefer reading romance novels. This is just because men are constantly searching for visual stimulation while women are searching for mental arousal. And this is why we need to talk to our women before having sex. However, most of us only know this but we do not really do it when we are having sex with our women.

Now you will probably know that there are great difference between men and women in terms of sex. And you should try to learn more about female body, as well as the thoughts of women if you would like to give her the greatest sexual experiences.



The Author has a site on Secrets of the Sexual Surrogate.

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